DAY 2 OF FENG SHUI-ING YOUR WHOLE LIFE:

Didn’t your first day of cleaning feel so good?

Yesterday, we laid the foundation by clearing physical and energetic space in your home, career, and health routines—therefore aligning your external world to better hold your inner vision. Today, we’re diving into the heart-centered and vulnerable areas of life, decluttering the relationships, friendships, and personal style that shape your daily experience and how you “show up” in the world.

As you move through today’s prompts, ask yourself: What relationships, commitments, and aesthetics truly reflect my highest self? This process isn’t just about removing what no longer serves—it’s about intentionally choosing what does.

Yesterday, we explored these “rooms” first:

• Your Physical Home & Sanctuary Space

• Your Abundant Work Life & Career Vision

• Your Grounded Physical Health & Body Image

If you missed that part of the series, you can head here!

Today we’re decluttering these spaces:

• Your Authentic Personal Style & “High-Vibe” Aesthetic

• Your Heart-Centered Partnerships, Family & Children

• Your Joyful Community & Friendships

& tomorrow we’ll finish the full mind-body-spirit-space cleansing by tackling these areas:

• Discovering Your Sacred Spiritual Practice & Intuitive Connection

• Finding Your Flow State Through Passions & Creative Pursuits

• Your Truth, Confident Voice, & Boundaries

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THE SPACE: YOUR PERSONAL STYLE AND “HIGH-VIBE” AESTHETIC

STEP 1:

DESCRIBE YOUR SIGNATURE STYLE IN 3 WORDS (SHOUT OUT TO ALLISON BORNSTEIN, BUT THIS WORKS!):

IF YOUR “AESTHETIC” COULD SPEAK FOR YOU, HOW DO YOU FEEL YOU “INTRODUCE” YOURSELF THROUGH YOUR STYLE AND CLOTHING?:

STEP 2: DEEPER REFLECTIONS

• Think about the shelves and drawers of your closet, what story does this story tell?

• Which outfits or pieces make you feel the most like you—like a deep exhale, fully at home in your skin?

• What kind of relationship do you have with getting dressed right now? Are you intentional, experimental, indifferent, or somewhere in-between? And does that feel aligned with how you want to show up?

• If you could set one personal style intention for the year ahead—whether it’s embracing more ease, adding boldness to your accessories, refining or upgrading staple pieces, or letting go of what no longer fits your body—what would it be?

• What do you admire about personal style in others? What do you find beautiful, confident, and brave when you see others expressing themselves?

STEP 3: The Ritual

It’s time to write a manifesto. To yourself when you’re dressed and feeling incredible in your skin, your clothes, YOUR style.

Use the following framework to write a personalized and authentic manifesto. Once written, place it somewhere in your closet. Maybe you even go the extra mile to frame it in a pretty frame and add it to one of your shelves, or hang it on the back of your closet door.

MY STYLE MANIFESTO:

I dress to embody my _____ (essence, feeling, or energy, e.g., "radiant confidence," "soft strength," "divine creativity") because when I do, I feel ______ (emotion or state of being, e.g., "limitless," "deeply grounded," "magnetic").

My signature style is a reflection of my ____ (core value, e.g., "freedom," "intuition," "legacy"), expressed through ______ (color, texture, or aesthetic, e.g., "earthy neutrals and flowing fabrics," "bold metallics and structured silhouettes").

I release the need to dress for _____ (external expectation, e.g., "trends," "approval," "perfection") and instead choose pieces that make me feel ______ (feeling, e.g., "alive," "fully myself," "like a work of art").

When I walk into a room, my presence speaks ________ (one to three words, e.g., "wisdom, warmth, and wonder"), and my style tells a story of _______ (vision, e.g., "an artist in motion," "a grounded dreamer," "a fearless creator").

I give myself full permission to evolve, knowing that my style will shift as I become more________ (quality, e.g., "aligned," "free," "sovereign").

Above all, my style is an _______ (affirmation, e.g., "act of devotion to my highest self," "extension of my soul’s artistry," "invitation for the world to see me as I truly am").

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